Yesterday was mother’s day in my country.

Salam Alaikum sisters❤️
How are you all?
Yesterday was mother’s day in my country.
I’m reading all my friends messages to their moms what they posted on social media. Some of them praising and thankful to their moms, some feeling pain because they received betrayals, humiliation, rejection, loneliness and emotional trauma for the rest of their life.

So today about MOMS 🌸and DADS as well…
I wrote some sentences in capital letters, just to stress the points and please think about that.
Turn to yourself and think how was your relationship with your parents, especially with mom. What is your relationship now? What feelings do you have?

IF YOU EXPERIENCED VIOLENCE, MANIPULATION, BULLYING AS A CHILD, YOUR MOM’S AND/OR FATHER’S BEHAVIOUR WAS BECAUSE OF THEM, NOT BECAUSE OF YOU. YOU WERE AND ARE WORTHY OF LOVE, CARE AND COMPASSION.
BECAUSE ADULTS ALWAYS HAVING A CHOICE HOW TO BEHAVE.

I WANT TO REMIND EVERYONE THAT THE CHILDREN ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE BEHAVIOR OF THEIR PARENTS AND THE COMMUNICATION WITH THEM IN THE CHILDHOOD. THE CHILDREN ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP, THE PARENTS ARE.

FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT HAVING GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR PARENTS, GROWING A NEW PERSON AND AT THE SAME TIME GROWING YOURSELF CAN BE MUCH MORE DIFFICULT, BECAUSE YOU ARE DOING IT NOT ONLY WITHOUT A BASICS, BUT ALSO WITH BELIEFS, FEARS, AND WITHOUT PROPER SELF-REGULATION.

So I congratulate and thankful to all mothers who are trying to create safe and positive relationship with their children now and seeking help, learning, putting effort to grow themselves again.

It’s never to late to have a harmonious relationship, to raise children consciously in a secure attachment.

In classes and private meetings we focusing ON BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF YOURSELF, EMOTIONS AND TRAUMA EXPERIENCES, AND TO CONSCIOUS, RESPECTFUL PARENTING, ACCEPTING KIDS EMOTIONS, ABOUT BOUNDARIES AND UNDERSTANDING THE REAL CAUSES OF CHILDREN BEHAVIOR.

May Allah SWT gives a good physical and mental health, stability, patience and wisdom to all moms and dads ❤️
Ameen 🤲🏻