Salam Alaikum sisters. 🌸 Hope you all doing well.
Thank you for those who are posting on the group. I’ve been extremely busy last few days, will catch up all messages. Please keep engaging, encouraging, supporting each other and post valuable information. Thank you❤️

I’m receiving not only psychological questions but also questions about health, adults and children health. Example “What to do? my child 3 years old continuously sick”/ “ having rashes”/ “repeating ear infections”, “ tonsillitis” , “ should we do surgery to remove tonsils?”ect.
As I always seeing people holistically never excluding psychosomatic symptoms. I already mentioned it in previous messages.
"When a child is sick - the mother is also sick..." - I try to gently explain to those who come with children's inquiries... "The mother's soul is sick, her quality of life, emotional background is sick..."
And there has not been a single time that this has not been confirmed.. After all, children's psychosomatics is not about children, but about the mother's world (if we are talking about the 0-12 age group, and often even longer). As long as the child with the mother until early adolescence has a very strong "umbilical cord" - it always affects the child's state. Only around 7 years, when the real socialization begins and the relationship becomes more fragile - it is possible to look for the causes of illness in society, but even in that case, the mother can do a lot.

So today about KIDS SKIN RASHES from psychosomatics side. And if it’s prolonged and you tried everything, medications, alternative medicine, different ointments, visited many doctors I highly recommend first to turn to yourself and see what is your emotional status and psychological environment you are living in. In other words how much stress you are having and how are you feeling in daily life.
Kids skin rashes and allergies what damaging skin are direct messages what “speaking” about mother’s psychological and emotional wellbeing. And these messages are:

🌸"Mom, why are you constantly upset, irritated/ what you can’t tell?"

🌸"Mom, why are you putting shield from the outside world?"

🌸"Mom, I miss soft physical contact (or it’s too much and not pleasant)...

🌸"Mom, what's bothering you all the time? “

🌸"Mom, what touches you unpleasant” (situation, specific person)?"

I hope it will be helpful to become more conscious about yourself. We all need to learn about ourselves more. So wishing everyone consciously to see yourself and kids and live in harmony, peace and balance. And if you yourself feeling imbalanced and having tensed/ prolonged situations outside and at home only you who is capable to change it. Seek help, talk, solve, take actions.
Obviously changes require additional resources: determination, courage, awareness, energy, which are often not available... It's always easier to take another pill, go to the doctor again and again, to talk about same things with friends and mother and not change anything (because to change means to look at yourself first, to make a different decision, to face the responsibility of decisions and often - the unknown, which often seems unsafe and vague)...

Wishing you peace and happiness in your daily life and strong health for all parents and children.

And remember, HAPPINESS must first settle inside the mother. ❤️