Salam Alaikum sisters, 🌸how are you feeling today? Today the last but not the least picture. Child who wasn’t protected and was hurt a lot in his childhood, as an adult will attack first and try to defeat people around. Why an adults doing that? Just to protect themselves in advance and not to be hurt again. It’s coming from their subconscious. As the pain is still living inside. Usually people behaving like that suddenly and you might be feeling shocked that moment. Seems you didn’t say anything wrong but triggered other person that he/ she attacked you back very severe. Then both sides feeling hurt and going to deeper conflict and confrontation.