Salam Alaikum sisters🌸
How are you feeling today?
Many women I meet struggle with guilt and regret about their parenting.
Today short reminder from me to you:❤️
1. YOU ARE NOT A BAD PARENT.
• Parenting is a learning process, not a test of perfection.
• If you struggle with patience, emotional intelligence, or communication, KNOW that these are skills you can develop over time.
• KEEP SEEKING KNOWLEDGE, and you will grow into the parent you aspire to be.
AND if you don’t know from what to start - START FROM YOURSELF, choose self development.
2. YOU WILL BE MORE EXPIERENCED GRANDMOTHER, THAN YOU ARE AS A MOTHER.
• Every parent faces uncertainty and MAKES MISTAKES —this is part of learning.
• With time and experience, you will gain wisdom that will make future parenting (or grandparenting) feel more natural.
• Trust that today’s STRUGGLES are SHAPING you into a stronger, wiser version of yourself.
3. ALWAYS FULFILL YOURSELF FIRST.
• You cannot pour from an empty cup. PRIORITISE your mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
• A FULFILLED and emotionally balanced parent is better equipped to nurture and guide their children.
• SELF- CARE is not selfish—it is an essential part of being the best parent you can be.
SEARCH, LEARN AND GROW YOURSELF.🌸 STRIVE FOR CHANGES IF CURRENT SITUATION IS NOT SATISFYING YOU.
Choose my Sunday classes or any other self development and parenting classes. Together with other sisters you won’t feel lost and alone. AND REMEMBER ALWAYS IS HELP, just ASK.
May Allah bless you with patience, wisdom, and strength on this journey. You are doing better than you think, InshaAllah.
Have a beautiful day.☀️
