It’s not silly question. But in your message there’s an answer:

It’s not silly question. But in your message there’s an answer:
“ Gradually through experiences we understood”.

We as a parents are responsible to create safe environment for the kids. Obviously we won’t allow kids to take medicine or drink bleach. And we should protect from such life and their health threatening accidents.
So safety should be in the first place when they are going alone somewhere or staying home. And for that we can use additional tool.

But we all faced and learned through rough and tough experiences in life.
Natural consequences are the best lessons. We can’t protect them from everything and all the time, rather we should teach them what to do in tough situations, give skills and share our experiences.
That’s why it’s important to teach life skills, teach about emotional intelligence, communication ect and blend it with Islamic teachings.

When you won’t be here and now for them, anyway they need to take decisions and go through struggles. Life is unpredictable and our mission is to teach them confidently “fly” by themselves throughout the life.
I believe in protection prayer and wishing good. So as a mom I’m praying for them each morning and evening.
That everyone can do for their kids❤️