Salam Alaikum sisters. How are you feeling today? 🌸

I often hear: "I don't have money," "I'm not successful in relationships," "I don't know how to express myself," and many more variations of "I DON'T KNOW." Today, I suggest you assess what kind of person you really are and what features you have. This helps you to understand yourself and others better.

So, how much are you an adult?

POSITION OF AN ADULT:

• adequate assessment of the situation
• I want - I do
• doesn’t hurt others
• doesn’t manipulate
• assumes responsibility
• has no expectations
• makes decisions himself/ herself

As a result: • stability in life • will power• money • success • harmonious relations

"PARENTS" POSITION:
• teaches everyone and always
• advice everyone parents, friends, relatives, colleagues, even no one asking
• annoys most of the people around
and presents himself/ herself knowing everything
• always “parenting” husband/ wife
• constant control in other aspects

As a result: • lack of energy • there is no money • feeling everyone underestimates him/ her and doesn't appreciate what he/she did for others • victim’s position

CHILD'S POSITION:
• I don't know how to present myself
• I do not understand
• I don't know how to solve it
• make for me
• I'm not good at anything
• don't teach me
• constant search for support and help

As a result: • instability in life • no internal spine • there is no money • accompanies failures • disharmonious relationships

In short: "children" only have money for candy and are unable to build relations in the family. “Children” tend to get offended quickly, wall themselves with silence, cry and demand, constantly waiting for someone to help them do something, total dependents on others. In the same way, if you are in the permanent position of "mom" or "dad", your finances will be equal to "pension ", and the energy level of an older person will also greatly weaken the ability to stand firmly on your feet, achieve results in your activities, earn as much as you want and to be full partner in building a harmonious relationship.

So read, evaluate yourself and if necessary, change something if you want to live healthy and harmonious life. ❤️