Salam Alaikum sisters. How are you feeling today?
I don’t want to give you any information today about parenting just inviting you to reflect on your life❤️
Have you ever sincerely reflected on just how much you've already achieved in your life?
Once a helpless baby (you) came into this world, you learned to see colors, move your limbs, walk, feed yourself, think, learn, build your circle of environment, dream, and strive...
I have no doubt that you have a long list of achievements and skills…and this is not the end.
You have your health, friends, loved ones, and the pleasant “extras” in life that bring joy. You have yourself! And generally... you have what you have consciously or unconsciously attracted into your life.
Do you want more?
Everything depends on how well you know yourself, how much you're willing to invest in the quality of your life, and how much responsibility you’re ready to take for what happens in your life...
The point you are at in life right now is the result of your own inner attitudes, beliefs, perceptions, and the steps you've taken along the way. No one else is responsible for your health, lifestyle, or relationships – only you.
I invite you not to look for guilt, blame shaitan, think of Allah's punishment, or bad destiny if you're not where you want to be right now. Instead, take full responsibility for yourself and your life, and start making the changes you need.
For example, if you're not happy with your health, consider three actions you can take immediately:
1. Start drinking water properly,
2. Sleep earlier, or
3. Eat more raw vegetables.
If you're struggling with money, again, consider three solutions:
1. Search for a better-paying job,
2. Learn new skills, or
3. Find ways to improve your current situation by changing your habits.
You can always change the script, your thoughts, reactions, established “truths,” choices, and goals, and you will see an entirely different result...
Allah SWT answers prayers, so always have dreams. Write down all your dreams and start moving towards them. The power to change your life is in your hands!
Everything you hold in your hands today, everything that surrounds you, the whirlwind of thoughts in your head, the state of your health, the number of friends, family happiness, the amount of money – it is all the harvest of the life you’ve created...
Have a blessed Friday and remember that your duas are answered always, just sometimes not how you want. But in general it’s for your happiness and peace!